the last month

This is a collection of images from the last month before Zane turns one. Although most childhood development experts consider a person an “infant” until they are 18 months old, there is something about that stark, vertical line — 1 — that is so symbolic and undeniable. It is the signpost that marks the turn away from babyhood toward the next phase of life. Of course, he’s still a baby to me, but he is now a toddling, babbling, tantrum-throwing, solid food-eating, nighttime-sleeping type of baby. In other words, he’s becoming a person.

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To hold both the elation of watching him grow and the devastation of knowing I cannot reverse it, simultaneously in my heart, is a difficult task. I love being a mother, and it brings me more joy than anything I have ever done. That doesn’t mean it always brings me happiness — that is something I have to create for myself — but it does bring me immeasurable joy, and my heart swells with gratitude when I think of how blessed I am to be able to share so many precious moments of my life with my children. I wish I could keep them small and close to me indefinitely, but that would deprive them of their own journey. Instead, I must helplessly, but with pride, watch them crawl, toddle, and then run, into the future, toward the next signpost.

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a project // play kitchen part 2

Back in October, I posted about a DIY project I wanted to try: upcycling an old piece of furniture into a play kitchen. Like most things in my life, it went on the backburner (no pun intended) while I attended to more pressing matters. However, our little guy is going to be turning 1 next month (!), and I really wanted to give him a play kitchen for his birthday. He LOVES to watch me cook, and now that he is pretty mobile, I thought he might like to have a little place of his own to practice his culinary skills.

This morning, I randomly thought of this old TV stand that has been sitting in our basement, unused, since we moved. The minute I brought it upstairs, I knew I had found just the right thing to make Zane’s kitchen.

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As you can see, it is the perfect height for a little one. Here is Zane giving it a test run.

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And, here is a terribly rendered Photoshop mock-up of what I hope it will look like when it’s done. I’m not going to get too fancy with oven doors and all that jazz. I’m just going to have some cute curtains and some baskets underneath where he can store his “food” and dishes. That way, there will be no pinched fingers. We can upgrade to something fancier when he gets bigger. Also, the sink fixtures in this photo are way fancier than what I am planning to use.

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I think he will love it, and I can’t wait to work on it.

UPDATE 8/23/2012: We finished the kitchen just in time for Zane’s birthday!

And, here’s a little video of the kitchen “in use.”

what we’ve been up to lately

My apologies for having disappeared from this space. It seems that when you’re home with TWO kids, things get a lot busier! In any case, we’ve been spending our days at the town pool, trying to beat the heat. And, one of us has gained a new skill!

Hope you are all enjoying your summer, and I’ll try to be better about posting!

the ballerina

My apologies for my absence here as of late. We have been very busy getting ready for this past weekend’s performances. My daughter takes ballet at Moco Arts in Keene and this year they performed Alice in Wonderland. Lillia was a wicket in the croquet scene.

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It was a LONG weekend, and there were several tearful moments, but she made it through all three shows. I am so proud of her.

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This was a big step for her, a real growing up experience. She was backstage all weekend without me, and it really required her to step out of her comfort zone (and I had to step out of mine, too).

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Today is the last day of school for the year. I couldn’t be happier. I’m so looking forward to having my little girl home for the summer, and maybe even next year (if we decide to homeschool). Hopefully, I’ll be able to get back to blogging regularly again soon.

robin update

Here it is, my friends! The little baby robin who was stranded on my lawn has really grown quite a bit. I’m 99.9% certain this is the same one, as there seems to be only one robin family in my yard. This little one still follows its dad around everywhere, hoping to get a morsel or two. I’m sure it is still learning how to be a robin. I’m so pleased to be able to watch this little life grow. Maybe next year it will have babies of its own to watch over!

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On a similar note, I saved another fledgling last night. My neighbor’s cat had just got it, and the parents were going absolutely mad. So, I got some gloves and approached the scene. The cat had put it down, so I just picked it up and carried it across the street to my yard. It just sat in my hand, still and silent. It didn’t look terribly injured, as I think the attack had just started. I held it in my hand for a long time, trying to decide what to do. Eventually, my husband suggested that I set it down in one of our hanging planters, so it would be safe from cats. The planter is next to the front door, so I knew I could keep an eye on it. By the time we had gone around the corner of the house and back inside to the door, the robin was gone! I looked everywhere all over the ground and in the flowerbeds, but it had definitely flown away. I was really pleased to have given it another chance at life.

One thing I must note is that we live on the edge of a conservation area that is a refuge to many beautiful species of birds. However, there are now five, that’s right FIVE, so-called “housecats” that roam free in my yard on a daily basis. We have a cat, but he is indoor only, for his health, and the health of the other living beings in my neighborhood, namely songbirds and small mammals. If you have a cat that goes outside, please read this message from the National Fish & Wildlife Society:

Americans keep an estimated 60 million cats as pets. Let’s say each cat kills only one bird a year. That would mean that cats kill over 60 million birds (minimum) each year – more wildlife than any oil spill.

Scientific studies actually show that each year, cats kill hundreds of millions of migratory songbirds. In 1990, researchers estimated that “outdoor” house cats and feral cats were responsible for killing nearly 78 million small mammals and birds annually in the United Kingdom.

University of Wisconsin ornithologist, Dr. Santley Temple estimates that 20-150 million songbirds are killed each year by rural cats in Wisconsin alone.

Feline predation is not “natural.” Cats were domesticated by the ancient Egyptians and taken throughout the world by the Romans. Cats were brought to North America in the 1800’s to control rats. The “tabby” that sits curled up on your couch is not a natural predator and has never been in the natural food chain in the Western Hemisphere.

Cats are a serious threat to fledglings, birds roosting at night and birds on a nest. Research shows that de-clawing cats and bell collars do not prevent them from killing birds and other small animals. For healthy cats and wild birds, cats should not be allowed to roam free.