“A portrait of my children once a week, every week, in 2015.”

Lillia: This week you were really excited about April Fool’s Day. On Monday afternoon, you and your friend spent a long time thinking up ways to prank your classmates (all of your ideas were good-natured fun, not cruel tricks). My favorite one was the “quarter nose trick” in which you color the edge of a quarter ahead of time with a pencil, and then ask your unsuspecting victim to roll the quarter down his or her nose, thus making a graphite line on their nose. I hear you fooled many people with that one! You’ve always had a goofy side — you really take after my mother in that way 🙂

Zane: This week you’re sick again, but I am just so completely done with writing about illnesses. So, I’m going to share some conversations that we had this week instead. Three year-olds are the perfect mixture of burgeoning intelligence and sweet naivete.

[ezcol_1half id=”” class=”” style=””]Conversation #1:
playing with a Duplo garbage truck
Zane: I’m doomed!
Me: Doomed?
Zane: Yes, that’s another way to say you’re full of trash.
[/ezcol_1half] [ezcol_1half_end id=”” class=”” style=””]Conversation #2:
listening to birds singing
Me: They are all trying to find mates.
Zane: I’m a bird mate!
Me: You’re a bird mate?
Zane: Yes, I LOVE birds!
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“A portrait of my children once a week, every week, in 2015.”

Lillia: This week you have been working extra hard on your homework and other school work. You got your report card last Friday and you got all A’s and A+’s, except for one B+ in Science. That B+ really bothers you, and I can understand that. When I was your age I was definitely very concerned about getting good grades. But, the important thing is really to learn the material. Grades aren’t always an accurate reflection of what you know, and the learning is more important than the letter on the paper, for sure. We were all impressed with your grades, but the bit that impressed me the most was your math score on your most recent standardized test. You went from the 80th percentile in September to the 95th percentile this month — that is a HUGE jump! I know you weren’t thrilled about being in math remediation, but clearly it has been helpful. Your hard work has really paid off and I hope you are very proud of yourself. [Note: Lillia is holding a drawing she did of Joseph Stalin for a research paper — she’s doing an oral report on him today.]

Zane: This week you got the tummy bug that has been going around at your school. Thankfully, it was a one and done sort of situation, and now you are feeling much better. The snow is starting to melt and we took a walk around the block so that we could check each and every drain to see how the water was running. You really need some rain paints because you’ve been coming in from outside just absolutely drenched from head to toe! The best part of your week was when the kids down the street invited you to ride your tricycle with them; they are 7 and 9 years-old, so it was a real treat to hang out with the “big kids.” Right now the age gap seems massive, but in a couple of years you’ll have no problem keeping up with them.

“A portrait of my children once a week, every week, in 2015.”

Lillia: This week you have been a little bit sad about your social situation at school. Nothing terrible is happening — no bullying or ostracizing or anything like that — but I think you are genuinely lonely. You said to me the other day that you sometimes wish I had skipped you ahead when I had the chance [Lillia started kindergarten at the age of four, and then we held her back a year to help her catch up, socially]. I’ve said this before, but it bears repeating: someday you will leave Walpole and discover that there are other people who are just like you! I know it’s hard to be an introvert with interests that aren’t always in line with what your peers are doing (that’s sort of the formula for being lonely), but I think that if you are patient and you continue to pursue opportunities to do things outside of school, you will eventually find your “people.”

Zane: This week you have been doing a lot of building — Duplos, wooden blocks, whatever you can get your hands on. I’m always so amazed by the structures you create: they are visually interesting; frequently symmetrical; and you often build things that “look” like other structures you’ve seen (i.e. “Saurus Rock” — if anyone reading this has kids, you might know what that is!). Mémé says that when Daddy was your age he really loved to build things, too. It’s interesting to watch you as you build — I can see those little gears turning, trying to figure out the best way to arrange the pieces. Your spatial intelligence is so much higher than mine, even at the age of three; what a gift! Someday you’ll be really good at assembling IKEA furniture!

“A portrait of my children once a week, every week, in 2015.”

Lillia: This week you had an academic fair at your school. You had to do a presentation for all of the parents about an arthropod and they had to guess what it was. Your bug was the Japanese beetle. You were upset that no one guessed correctly, but I wouldn’t take it too personally — entomology is kind of an esoteric science! After your presentation you got to go down to the gymnasium to see what the “big kids” had done for their projects. It’s hard to believe that in less than half a year you’ll be in sixth grade; you’ll BE one of the big kids! In some ways, you’re already there.

Zane: At the beginning of this week you and I went to the grocery store in Keene. While we were checking out, I glanced over and caught you LICKING the plastic bumper on the edge of the conveyor belt! Ay de mi! No big surprise that a couple of days later you came down with a cold. It certainly could have been worse (I don’t even want to KNOW what’s living on the surface of a conveyor belt bumper at the grocery store), but you did miss more school because of it. It doesn’t help that it is still really cold here — we haven’t been able to do much playing outside. We had a few warm days when the snow started to melt, but then cold days came so most of the snow is now ice. Soon, though, baby boy. Very soon Spring will come!